Hey Guys, I, Karuna Kriti Sinha is back with the 2nd part of my article 6 Mistakes in your Sixteen!
If you have missed the first part, then read it here - 6 Mistakes in your Sixteen | Part 1
4 .WE FORGET "HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY"
In our SIXTEENs our moral values often vanished not because we do not know but because of peer pressure. We have been taught these moral values since our childhood days. As we grow we tend to give little importance to these things. We started lying in the things which do not come in our favour. We try to cover up by lying. And the worst is that we do not even realize how a single lie becomes a series of lies.
Did you know? When a lie becomes a practice, we do not even realize that, we say to our parents we were in our high school but we bunked our class and roam around here & there. At that point, we do not feel that we are doing something wrong.
We assume that roaming with friends is not a big deal but have you given it a thought, what if, on your trip with your friends, someone faces some issue and parents have no clue about that. Of course, you might feel like an adult but you have to understand that you are not that enough grown-up to handle all the stuff by yourself that you can handle everything on your own.
5 Experiencing Adult Stuff!
As youngsters, we make bad decisions, get used to a few bad habits like alcohol or puffing cigarettes, thinking this is what adults do!
IF YOU ARE THINKING ALL THIS WAY, THEN YOU ARE DOING A MISTAKE, MY DEAR FRIEND -
The question arises - what to do?
Firstly be honest to yourself, and if you are ruining your life this way, then my dear friend, this happiness is not too long. These are temporary things, if you want to be successful ahead, stop lying.
Talk to your sibling or cousin or anyone elder to you who understands you fully in and out.
6 INFATUATION IS NOT LOVE -
It is so obvious to be infatuated with someone opposite to your gender. But we often mix infatuation with love and that's not correct.
Infatuation is being attracted to a person just based upon their physical appearance. And not seeing the inner beauty of that person.
That sensation that we feel when we see someone drives us crazy sometimes.
All songs you will find related to you and that person, you will start looking for dreams with that person in your head. If two of you start dating, you will feel the best thing ever is falling for someone, jam of promises will be there by a couple of lots of happiness, but the same way A COIN HAS TWO SIDES so does it goes with any other thing.
What if it did not work out?
You will be disturbed, and you will not be able to concentrate on any other things.
What to do? Plenty of things to be done -
- ENGAGE YOURSELF IN SOME ACADEMIC OR IN THE FIELD YOU ARE INTERESTED IN.
- CAN’T SPEND TIME ALONE.
- FOCUS ON YOUR DREAM.
- SELF LOVE
These were some of my thoughts for the mistakes we land up doing. Please let me know what you felt? Are you going through this or someone you know? Please make them read this. Hope you enjoyed reading this article.
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